Sunday, October 13, 2019

Happy 10th Birthday, Anneliese!

Welp, the middlest baby has made it to double digits. Happy birthday, Anneliese! Ten years old!!


We have spent the last two weeks traveling around Germany and the Netherlands, and I kept looking around having a hard time believing that the tiny baby I held for the first time 10 years ago, is now a poised mature big kid going on adventures and world traveling.

It's hard to grasp how much time changes, from those diaper and toddler years, to these adventure years, yknow? I'm not mad about it, but it also makes me nostalgic and missing the baby years, even though I don't actually miss them miss them, and wouldn't actually trade them for what we have now.

But, yeah. Ten years old. That was fast.


We are jet-lagged and travel weary, and my feelings are ajumble and hard to articulate, but here's a glimpse of Anneliese at ten.

She's (usually) reserved, except when she's being silly or photobombing. She remains a daydreamer and a big-picture dreamer. She is observant, and notices and remembers things that sometimes surprise me for her age. She is kind, she is remarkably patient, and she loves feeling helpful. She's very sensitive, which comes with a handful of "drama" sometimes (for lack of a better word), but she's also resilient when she needs to be, and handles herself better than many kids when it comes to new or unknown things. She's sometimes nervous to try something she's uncertain about (like anyone), but then... she tries anyway. In some ways I find that even braver than being a brazen fearless daredevil, if that makes sense.

She loves sleep, spaghetti, rainbows, pretty pens and paper, being tall, playing her violin, reading, long showers, fun shoes, slime, Harry Potter (she wants me to say she's a clever and creative Ravenclaw), swimming, kicking the soccer ball or trampolining outside, audiobooks, roller-skating, Starbucks, boogie-boarding at the beach, babies (especially her cousins), crafting, singing, cute bags and pouches, warm soft blankets, water slides and roller coasters, running errands (yes really), and baking/cooking projects. She also adores her siblings but not on days when they drive her bonkers, she says. :)

She hates most potatoes, being rushed, and getting up early. She stresses and worries about sickness and not being able to be successful at things (both are mostly unfounded in her case, but anxiousness is anxiousness amirite). She only likes snuggling when it involves being near you but notsomuch touching you, except in the case of back scratching, which she, like her siblings, will always happily demand accept (no idea where they get that). She dislikes chores, too much sports talk, walks/hikes/worship services that take too long, being cold, wearing dresses to non-church events, and when people are too casual about single-use plastics, which she would like you to know are ruining the planet.

She hovers on the line between liking and only-tolerating school, but is a pretty dang good student. Not quick, but thoughtful and accurate and patient. Plus, her friends are there, and so is orchestra, as well as her art and drama clubs. (She is much too giggly to ever be a theater star, her feigned anger and seriousness is laughably... not that; but she does love to try.)

We are so proud to know her and love her, and lucky to raise her, and we thank God for her every day. Happy birthday, baby Beanie. Ten years old!!!

Some memories of this 10th year with Anneliese:



Videos from past birthdays:
9th year
8th year
7th year
6th year
5th year
4th year
3rd year
2nd year
1st year


Thursday, August 8, 2019

Happy 8th Birthday, Charlotte!

It's Charlotte's golden birthday! She is 8 years old today! Mark just hooked a sprinkler to the top of the trampoline and cleaned out the pool for an indoor camping sleepoverstravaganza for the birthday girl this evening (happening concurrently with middle school open house for Nathan, BECAUSE OF COURSE), but first I need to say some birthday feelings about our little Booler. Who is EIGHT!



And who also apparently did a photo shoot with her sister around the yard this week, because I found these pics on her device and she said Anneliese took them. WELL THEN. OKAY.




I took her rock climbing yesterday for the first time (Mark had a hunch she'd like it, and hoo boy was he right, she scampered to the top of that wall within an hour of trying, and the staff people couldn't believe she had never done it before. (The other kids were there too. We all tried it. We had varying levels of success. You should read between those lines and go ahead and assume I suck. I tried though!)

Anyway it sort of made me realize all of the things Charlotte can DO now. I was thinking of how much she has learned this year and it just blows my mind. She went from being a timid swimmer to racing on swim team (and she's good! she medaled in the city championships!), she went from being a hesitant reader to plowing through chapter books (she will be badgering me to start Harry Potter within hours of this post; I promised her we could do it when she is 8, and she has been counting the days, which is fun but also oddly sad because she's the last kid I get to do this with for the first time), she moved up a level at gymnastics, she works ahead in math at school, she went from being an angry nervous roller skater to being obsessed with it, she learned to play an instrument (!!!) (there is nothing better in her life these days than her viola; let me tell you, the child wants to draw alto clefs on errrrything and you've never seen anyone prouder to play what some folks consider a castoff instrument... she is here for VIOLA PRIDE), she talks and runs and plays and fights and sneaks and eats and bickers and schemes and laughs and shares and reasons like a big kid.

But she still snuggles like a baby, thank goodness.

She needs a dozen hugs to get through every day, see.

(She has no idea how many a dozen actually is, she just collects hugs at will; no one ever stop her please.)

Things Charlotte loves these days:
- her viola
- roller skating
- YouTube
- beanie boos
- swimming
- planting and growing things
- playing soccer with Nathan
- playing dolls with Anneliese
- bickering with anyone
- candy
- sneaking candy
- cucumbers
- shrimp (for to eat)
- narwhals (not for to eat)
- flamingoes
- tennis
- her messy room, surrounded by all her Things
- Ramona
- math
- the beach
- snuggling
- Master Chef Jr
- sloths
- staying up late
- rock climbing (she told me be sure to add that)
- things that are cute (she told me to add that too)

Things Charlotte does not love these days:
- sleeping late
- eating breakfast
- wearing unders
- getting dressed, just, in general
- posing for photos
- sight words
- going for walks
- earbuds that won't stay in
- fruits and veggies
- running errands
- when Alexa doesn't understand her
- tangly hair
(Those last two she insisted I include.)

So that's our Booler, at age 8. I can't believe I have known her for this many years now. I can't believe how glad I still am that we have her, that she's here, that all of us are here. And that I get to love her. This playful chatty curious sassy cuddly sweet nervous confident trying-to-keep-up beautiful little human.

This year's birthday video:


(If you can't see the video embedded above, click here to watch it on YouTube.)

Happy birthday, dear Charlotte.  We love you forever and ever no matter what.

Previous years' videos!
Seventh year
Sixth year
Fifth year
Fourth year
Third year
Second year
First year



Friday, July 26, 2019

Happy 12th Birthday, Nathan!

Well it's the end of July again, which means it's time to dust off Ye Olde Blogge because birthday season is upon us, and here remains my best option for capturing something of my babies' baby-selves (yes they're still babies), besides what's happening on insta and whatever.

(Has the social corner of the internet grown into an almost-teen right alongside Nathan? Yes? Yes, it has. The first iPhone was born the same month he was, and well, here we are living in this whole new internet future.)

He's TWELVE today. (!!)

Happy birthday, baby Nathan!!

I wish I had a lovely real professional picture of him but alas, I don't yet, that won't happen for a few more weeks (I'm getting less rigid in my old age) (haaaaa HA you know that's a lie, obviously) (it's just been a busy few weeks and I decided it could wait) (hmmm actually that does sound legitimately like less rigid; I'll take it) and ANYWAY here, enjoy this pic of him from his first day of school yesterday, instead:



He started 7th grade yesterday (still on a modified schedule) and doesn't it sound so old? Seventh grade? He had a good school year last year, which we were surprised and grateful for (surprised because transitioning to middle school sort of sucks amirite? and grateful because we ain't no fools). He loved Chinese best, and took a new interest in history/ social studies. He still likes math and science too, but seems less attached to them over other subjects than he used to be. He does that thing where he's so balanced/fair/noncommittal (Hufflepuff!) that it's hard to tell sometimes what he really likes best, because he seems to moderately enjoy almost all of it. But his affinity for Chinese is clear.

He is still playing his cello and had a great year in orchestra, much better than we knew to expect at his new school. He gets to combine with the band kids and play in a symphony group with brass and winds and percussion which is new to him and has been a really rewarding musical experience.

He has also leaned all in at church this year. He adores youth choir, has turned into a decent little tenor, and seems to have a renewed interest in worship and youth group and faith formation. We did a new (to us) conference at Montreat this year, and he got to be a Music and Worship conferee (Anneliese too!) which they both really liked.

He continues to be obsessed with sports, more obsession in my book than is really warranted considering we have very much screeched the breaks on anything beyond Y teams or city rec league. He watches soccer and football and baseball and fancies himself a future professional, which... mmmkay. (I know, I know, this is normal 12yo kid things, I just need to roll my eyes a little.)

He is still eating everything in sight, says his favorite is steak and also Asian food. He loves Master Chef Jr and still likes to try "helping" in the kitchen and at the grill. He started reading the Lord of the Rings books, but secretly when he doesn't think we are paying attention, he still can't quit the Who Was biographies and takes them to bed on the reg, to read under the covers. He is more and more outgoing and might even be turning into the most extroverted person in this house? (I don't even know what's happening, y'all.)

He loves playing soccer with Charlotte, making videos with Anneliese, trampolining and minecrafting and outside pretending with both of them, building legos in solitude, and he has more patience for little-sister Beanie Boos than I'd ever expect of a kid his age, and yet I'm also not super surprised.

He is kind and confident. He is very anxious and stressed when things don't go how they are "supposed" to go, and we like to joke that his life MO might be "the rules are in place so everyone can JUST HAVE FUN." (Rules: he likes 'em.) He is also bossy and helpful and shows excellent judgement. He's responsible and independent in the best kinds of ways -- managing his own school stuff with very little input needed, riding the city bus home from school on his own every day, getting himself up and going every morning, remembering his schedule and his calendar things. He is curious and snuggly and is in motion 80% of the time. (Growing bodies, man.) He is a really wonderful human, and we love him.

Some of our favorite moments this year are in the video below, including grandparent visits, flights to Minnesota (including a Vikings stadium tour) and to California (!!!) to see Clemson play in the national championship bowl game (I know that's not technically what it's called, don't @ me). Plus Montreat and a road trip and general fun at home:



(If you can't see the video embedded above, click here to watch it on YouTube.)

We love you so much, buddy. And yes, you're twelve and still a baby, thank you for agreeing to this arrangement. Happy birthday, dear Nathan.

Past videos and memories:

Nathan's 10th year
9th year
8th year
7th year
6th year
5th year
4th year
3rd year
2nd year
1st year